Why men love bitches

A part of introduction to the book " why men love bitches" by sherry Argov.
It is quite interesting!

The Woman I'm describing is kind yet strong. She has a strength that is ever so subtle. She doesn't give up her life and she won't chase a man. She won't let a man think he has a 100% "hold" on her. and she 'll stand up for herself when he steps over the line.
She knows what she wants but won't compromise herself to get it. But she is "feminine" like a "steel magnolia" flowery on the outside and steel on the inside. She uses this very femininity to her own advantage. It isn't that she takes undue advantage of men because she plays fair. She has one thing the nice girl doesn't: a presence of mind because she isn't swept away by a romantic fantasy. This presence of mind enables her to wield her power when it is necessary.
In addition she has the ability to remain cool under pressure. Whereas, a woman who is 'too nice' gives and gives until she is depleted, the woman with presence of mind knows when to pull back.

The men I interviewed all phrased slightly differently, but the message didn't change. "men like it when a woman has a bit of an edge to her" they said. two things become clear across the board: first they would regularly use the phrase "mental challenge" to describe a woman who didn't appear needy. and second the word "bitch" was synonymous with their concept of mental challenge, and this characteristic above all they found attractive.

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